Related for Bava Batra 252:7
דתניא האומר לאשה הרי את מקודשת לי על מנת שאין ליך עלי שאר כסות ועונה הרי זו מקודשת ותנאו בטל דברי ר' מאיר ר' יהודה אומר בדבר של ממון תנאו קיים
HIS ARRANGEMENTS ARE VALID.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Because a person is entitled to dispose of his property, as a gift, in any manner that appeals to him. ');"><sup>18</sup></span> IF, [HOWEVER], HE SAID, AS AN INHERITANCE',<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., if he distributed the shares as portions of an inheritance and not as gifts. ');"><sup>19</sup></span> HIS INSTRUCTIONS ARE DISREGARDED.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra n. 2 and 1. ');"><sup>20</sup></span>
Tosefta Kiddushin
"[Be betrothed to me] with the understanding that if I die you will not bound to a levir"—she is betrothed but his stipulation is invalid, for he stipulated against what was written in the Torah, and anyone who stipulates against what is written in the Torah, his stipulation is invalid. "With the understanding that I will have no responsibility for you for clothing or sex"—she is betrothed but his stipulation is invalid. This is the pneumonic: Anyone who stipulates against what is written in the Torah regarding a monetary matter—his stipulation stands; with a non-monetary matter—his stipulation is invalid.
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